Why 
                  Advance Directives Are Necessary 
                Living wills and other advance directives 
                  are written, legal instructions regarding your preferences for 
                  medical care if you are unable to make decisions for yourself. 
                  Advance directives guide choices for providers and caregivers 
                  if you are mentally incapacitated due to illness, injury, anesthesia, 
                  medication, or end of life.  
                   
                  Advance directives aren't just for older adults. Unexpected 
                  situations can happen at any age, so it's important for all 
                  adults to prepare these documents. 
                   
                  By planning ahead, you can get the medical care 
                  you want, avoid unnecessary suffering and relieve caregivers 
                  of decision-making burdens during moments of crisis or grief. 
                  You also help reduce confusion or disagreement about the choices 
                  you would want people to make on your behalf. 
                  Medical Patient Modesty 
                  encourages everyone to have advance directives that illustrate 
                  their wishes about intimate procedures, nursing home care, and 
                  type of anesthesia for any surgeries they might have.  
                   
                  We have been contacted by many people who were 
                  who were taken off guard when they are in a vulnerable position. 
                  These patients were violated during procedures because they 
                  were sedated or under anesthesia and unable to object to intimate 
                  procedures (ex: urinary catheter insertion, shaving of pubic 
                  area, etc.) being performed on them without their knowledge 
                  or expressed consent. Advance directives would help eliminate 
                  such traumatic experiences because they legally bind providers 
                  to honoring your wishes during treatment. This is information 
                  that should be discussed during the informed consent process, 
                  but it is often not. Yet vague consent forms allow providers 
                  to get away with leaving out information that some patients 
                  would deem important regarding their medical experience. Advance 
                  directives force providers to have conversations with patients 
                  that should be occurring during a true informed consent process. 
                  Be aware, however, that consent forms have a provision 
                  to suspend advance directives. This provision should 
                  be struck through, thereby legally binding providers and staff 
                  to honor your directives. However, this may result in the provider 
                  refusing to treat you, prompting you to seek treatment elsewhere. 
                  But at least you will have the peace of mind knowing that all 
                  of your wishes have been communicated. This is why these directives 
                  are important. 
                  Each state has different forms and 
                  requirements for creating legal documents. Depending on where 
                  you live, a form may need to be signed by a witness or notarized. 
                  You can ask a lawyer to help you with the process, but it is 
                  generally not necessary. Be aware that lawyers will often charge 
                  you if they have to assist you in preparing your directives. 
                   
                   
                  Check out a sample 
                  advance directive for a North Carolina woman that includes 
                  special instructions about intimate procedures, 
                  surgeries, etc. starting on page 
                  4. She makes it clear that she will not accept 
                  any male medical personnel for any procedures that involve visual 
                  or physical access of intimate body parts that are covered by 
                  a two-piece bathing suit. She also makes it clear she will not 
                  be under general anesthesia or sedated. You can use this as 
                  an example, but keep in mind each state may have different requirements 
                  for advance directives. Fill in the red parts with your health 
                  agent’s name, your name, and other information.  
                   
                  When you have completed your documents, you need 
                  to do the following: 
                 
                  - Keep the originals in a safe but easily accessible 
                    place. 
 
                     
                  - Give a copy to your doctor. 
 
                     
                  - Give a copy to your health care agent and 
                    any alternate agents.
 
                     
                  -  Keep a record of who has your advance directives.
 
                     
                  -  Talk to family members and other important 
                    people in your life about your advance directives and your 
                    health care wishes. By having these conversations now, you 
                    help ensure that your family members clearly understand your 
                    wishes. Having a clear understanding of your preferences can 
                    help your family members avoid conflict and feelings of guilt. 
                    
 
                     
                  - Create and carry a wallet-sized card that 
                    indicates you have advance directives, identifies your health 
                    care agent and states where a copy of your directives can 
                    be found. Here's an example of a wallet-sized health 
                    care advance directive card you can create. 
 
                     
                  - Keep a copy with you when you are traveling. 
                    
 
                 
                 
                  Sources: 
                Living 
                  wills and advance directives for medical decisions - Mayo Clinic 
                   
                  Advanced 
                  Directives Tell Your Surgery Wishes?  
                   
                Resources 
                  To Check Out: 
                What You 
                  Should Know About Surgery 
                Unnecessary 
                  Underwear Removal For Surgeries 
                Sedation, 
                  Versed, and Your Procedure 
                Modesty 
                  Concerns for Procedures and Surgeries 
                Why 
                  You Should Have a Personal Advocate For Surgery?  
                Surgery 
                  and Your Modesty 
                Surgery 
                  and Your Modesty - Youtube Video 
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