The medical community often expects patients to set aside their concerns about modesty simply because they are in a medical setting. However, many patients want to see a change in this attitude. Many men and women do not want certain parts of their bodies exposed to anyone of the opposite sex other than their spouses. Locker rooms and public restrooms are separated for a reason, and many people would strongly object if those boundaries were eliminated. So why should modesty concerns be considered unusual or unreasonable in the medical community?

Modesty is important in all circumstances.

Think about how many husbands would be upset if another man watched their wives bathing or using the toilet. Similarly, some wives would be uncomfortable with another woman watching their husbands use a urinal. Many husbands feel strongly that their wives' intimate body parts should not be exposed to other men, including doctors and nurses. This does not make them crazy. They simply love their wives and believe that protecting their wives' intimate privacy is an important part of their marriage.

Many husbands support their wives receiving intimate medical care from female doctors, midwives, and nurses. The intimate bond between a husband and wife is very special, and some couples believe that exposing intimate body parts to a person of the opposite sex—even a medical professional—violates or compromises an aspect of that marital relationship. Many spouses feel honored to be the only person of the opposite sex who sees or has access to their spouse's intimate body parts.

In addition, some single people are committed to purity and do not want their intimate body parts exposed to the opposite sex, even in medical settings. They desire for their future spouses to be the only people of the opposite sex to see or have access to certain parts of their bodies, especially after puberty.

Medical professionals are no different from ordinary people. Their training and experience do not change their sex.

There are sexual abuse survivors who become extremely upset when their modesty is disregarded in medical settings because it brings back painful memories. It is very important to them that their modesty be respected and that they receive as much privacy as possible. Many female abuse survivors prefer to have only female medical professionals participate in intimate medical procedures performed on them. Their concerns deserve to be taken seriously and respected.

Male patients have modesty concerns, too.

Some male patients are upset about female nurses inserting their urinary catheters. Some men were not even aware that this would happen until they woke up following a surgical procedure. Patients should have clear information about planned procedures and an opportunity to express their preferences whenever possible.

Take a moment to look at some of the cases involving violations of bodily privacy. There have been cases in which female nurses insisted on bathing male patients even when the patients did not want them to do so. Some patients felt unable to stand up for their rights or communicate their objections effectively. Patients should not feel powerless to express their preferences about intimate personal care.

Why should patients have to remove more clothing than a procedure requires?

Surgeries involving the wrist, knee, arm, or any other area that is not covered by underwear should not require patients to remove their underwear. Some physicians may not like working around clothing, but convenience is not a sufficient reason to disregard a patient's modesty.

Consider the experience of one man who informed the nurses and doctor before his carpal tunnel surgery that he did not want his pants removed. His wishes were ignored, and a nurse later brought his pants to his wife. This example raises an important question: Why should a patient's clearly expressed modesty preferences be disregarded when the procedure does not require the removal of those clothes?

Patients can successfully stand up for their bodily privacy.

There are cases in which patients have successfully advocated for the bodily privacy they wanted. These examples demonstrate that patients can speak up, communicate their preferences, and sometimes achieve the level of privacy they desire.

Please see these successful cases for examples of patients who have advocated for their modesty.

Please take a moment to read the comments below from people explaining why modesty is so important to them in medical settings. Their experiences and perspectives help illustrate why patient modesty deserves greater recognition, understanding, and respect.

Woman Who is Committed To Purity from NC

Brandon from Indiana